getting angry and dealing with people

Do not get angry.
DO not get angry.
DO NOT GET ANGRY!

Seriously, it is a waste of time.
Instead, think of ways to distract yourself. Go do dishes or laundry or write or read or do something outdoors, something fun.

I don't like when I see people get mad so quickly, it is just _______! you fill it in.
There is so much more to life than being upset over something so simple, it is better to express your feelings and STOP yourself from doing or saying something you will later regret.

I used to get really mad FAST. Oh boy you couldn't mess with me. I once attacked this gangster classmate because I thought he took my pencil. (this was in junior high) I told him I'll go talk to the principal right away and he was so afraid of me LOL he told me sincerely he didn't take it. I later found it when I got home in my bag.

You see, sometimes we just "assume" and think the worst of people when in reality, we got to see the other side of things. Look in the mirror and "see the other"....there is something there for you to learn. We all make mistakes and what we need to avoid is becoming furious specially with the ones we love most.

It is not easy living together with people as you learn their ways and how they really are. You begin to treat them how you see fit and don't give second chances. The secret is to allow each person to express themselves as they are and give space. Some may be upset for 30mins while others may be upset for days. All matters can be resolved though...it's not hard, it's a matter of "communication" and expressing/understanding the message. Being on the "other side" and understanding where each person is coming from.
NOT EASY
but NOT IMPOSSIBLE.