misunderstandings can be so hurtful.
By nature, we are all "good", it is sometimes that we are misunderstood and immediately labeled. We don't like to be labeled but we find ourselves "labeling" others. She is this way, he is this way, She will never change, he will always do those things.
But in the end, labeling is really something we don't need to live with. School label children, parents label children, people label each other, doctors label patients, everyone has a way of organizing people by "labeling"
One of the most hurtful things is not what people tell you but what they decide to do with you once they label you, "they leave you alone".
Instead of helping the person out and being patient in teaching them, these people are left on their own and people think this solves the problem.
Well now we have people with no friends, who will never learn or improve themselves because no one is there to help them.
On the other hand, there are those who can't take criticism and won't hear explanations, they make decisions based on their feelings and that's all.
Now that is also hurtful because instead of talking about a situation, they act on anger, it can become a very dangerous situation.
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